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Article: What to Ask Any Seller Before Buying Above Five Carats

What to Ask Any Seller Before Buying Above Five Carats

 

What to Ask Any Seller Before Buying Above Five Carats

Eleven questions, and what good and bad answers sound like

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Ask whether the stone was treated after growth: roughly 80% of CVD diamonds submitted to GIA since 2020 had undergone post-growth processing, and an IGI report notes treatment only when someone asks for it.

That is one of eleven questions worth putting to any seller before you buy a laboratory-grown diamond above five carats. Each one is here because a buyer has asked it, or should have. Each comes with what a good answer sounds like and what a bad one sounds like.

We wrote this so you could use it on anyone, including us. The questions whose answers are uncomfortable for sellers are the ones most worth asking, so the most uncomfortable one comes first.

The list, in one place

  1. 1Will it hold its value?
  2. 2Was it treated after growth?
  3. 3What type is it, and is there boron?
  4. 4Can I see proportions and light-performance imaging, not just a 360 video?
  5. 5What is the price per carat, and how does it compare at other sizes?
  6. 6What is your markup?
  7. 7What is the cut grade, and if it is a fancy shape, what stands in for one?
  8. 8Which laboratory graded it, and can I verify the report myself?
  9. 9Can I, or a gemologist, see it before funds are released?
  10. 10What happens if I change my mind, and separately, if it is not as described?
  11. 11Who cut it, and where?
Ask every seller the same eleven, Operia included. Each is explained below.
1

Will it hold its value?

It is the question behind every version of “am I about to be taken?”, so it comes first.

The honest answer is no, and a seller who tells you otherwise is saying something the price record contradicts. Laboratory-grown wholesale prices fell more than 97 percent between mid-2018 and mid-2026, by Edahn Golan Diamond Research’s measure. In 2025 De Beers, whose core business is natural diamonds, closed its own laboratory-grown brand, Lightbox, its chief executive citing “the persistently declining value of lab-grown diamonds.”

Buy a large laboratory-grown diamond for what it is to wear, at a fair price for today. Our guide to what a large stone actually costs shows how to judge that price.

A good answer
“No,” said plainly, with the price record behind it.
A bad answer
“Diamonds are forever,” “it’s an investment,” or a resale percentage. The resale figures in circulation for laboratory-grown stones trace to seller blogs, not primary data.
2

Was it treated after growth?

Most CVD stones are, and the report won’t say so unless someone asked.

Roughly 80 percent of the CVD diamonds submitted to GIA since 2020 had undergone post-growth processing, usually to remove brown. At record sizes, GIA has also seen stones grown slowly enough to need no treatment, so don’t assume either way. Treatment is permanent and not a defect: the point of asking is disclosure, not avoidance.

A good answer
“Yes” or “no,” with the report comment that says so, because the seller requested it at submission.
A bad answer
“The report doesn’t mention treatment, so it wasn’t treated.” Silence on an IGI report means only that nobody asked.
3

What type is it, and is there boron?

Boron is blue nuance before you can see it.

In its 2017 review, GIA found that a majority of the colorless HPHT samples it examined were Type IIb, carrying boron. CVD stones are typically Type IIa. Our guide to diamond type explains why that matters.

A good answer
The growth method and the type, noted on the report: Type IIa for a CVD stone, or IIa or IIb stated plainly for an HPHT one.
A bad answer
“Type II” alone on an HPHT stone, which doesn’t separate IIa from IIb, or “Type IIa” offered as a sign of rarity.
4

Can I see proportions and light-performance imaging, not just a 360 video?

Video alone rarely settles cut. As one buyer put it: “I really can’t tell anything from the videos.”

Our guide to why cut is the hard part covers what the proportions and images should show.

A good answer
Full proportions, reflector imaging such as ASET or Idealscope, and face-up video under the same lighting as the seller’s other stones.
A bad answer
“The video speaks for itself.”
5

What is the price per carat, and how does it compare at other sizes?

Price per carat falls above five carats, and most sellers won’t volunteer it.

On September 18, 2026, one marketplace listed a 5.01-carat D/VVS2 at $1,136 per carat and a 10.02-carat D/VVS2 at $735. Our guide to what a large stone actually costs has the full dated comparison.

A good answer
A per-carat figure, with stones of similar grades at nearby sizes for comparison.
A bad answer
“It’s below the market average.” Averages blend every badly cut stone on the market.
6

What is your markup?

It is the largest single component of a retail price, and almost no one publishes it.

Edahn Golan Diamond Research puts the typical retail markup on a loose laboratory-grown diamond at 250 to 300 percent: a retail price three and a half to four times what the retailer paid.

A good answer
A number, or at least an honest range.
A bad answer
A change of subject.
7

What is the cut grade, and if it is a fancy shape, what stands in for one?

Cut is where large stones differ most, and the paperwork is thinnest.

GIA’s laboratory-grown assessment grades cut for round brilliants only. Not every IGI report for a fancy shape carries a cut grade, and GCAL’s 8X does not yet cover emerald cuts.

A good answer
A cut grade for a round, and for a fancy shape, proportions and light-performance imaging in its place.
A bad answer
“Excellent polish and symmetry,” offered as though it were a cut grade.
8

Which laboratory graded it, and can I verify the report myself?

“Certified” means nothing until you have checked it.

An IGI report can be checked free at lookup.igi.org against the inscription on the girdle. Our guide to certification and verification walks through it.

A good answer
The laboratory and the report number, before you pay.
A bad answer
An in-house certificate, or a report number available only after purchase.
9

Can I, or a gemologist, see it before funds are released?

For a stone at this size, an independent look costs little relative to the price.

Independent escrow is one route: on a $100,000 purchase it costs about $1,900, under 2 percent of the price.

A good answer
Yes: an inspection period, or payment held in escrow until you or a gemologist of your choice has seen the stone.
A bad answer
Payment in full before shipping, and no inspection.
10

What happens if I change my mind, and separately, if it is not as described?

Those are two different remedies, and most sellers publish only the first.

The terms vary more than buyers expect. As of September 2026, one major seller issues store credit only on returns above $15,000 and excludes stones over five carats from returns entirely; another charges a 20 percent restocking fee on loose diamonds.

A good answer
Both policies in writing, with the time limit, who pays shipping, and whether you get a refund or credit.
A bad answer
A return policy only, silence on what happens if the stone doesn’t match its description, or a restocking fee you learn about at checkout.
11

Who cut it, and where?

Cutting decides how a large stone looks, and a seller who knows can tell you.

Some sellers answer it in detail: one names Belgian master cutters in their fourth generation, another a New York workshop, and a natural-diamond house names South Africa, Botswana, New York and Antwerp.

A good answer
A named cutter or workshop, and a place.
A bad answer
“Sourced from trusted partners.”

Frequently asked questions

Are large lab-grown diamonds worth it?+

As a stone to wear, a large laboratory-grown diamond gives you size and top grades for far less than a natural stone. As a store of value, no: laboratory-grown prices have fallen sharply, and De Beers said in 2025 that it expected them to fall further.

Will a lab-grown diamond hold its value?+

No. Laboratory-grown wholesale prices fell more than 97 percent between mid-2018 and mid-2026, by Edahn Golan Diamond Research’s measure. Resale percentages in circulation trace to seller blogs, not primary data.

Are lab-grown diamonds treated after growth?+

Most CVD diamonds are: roughly 80 percent of those submitted to GIA since 2020 had undergone post-growth processing. Treatment is permanent. An IGI report notes it only when someone asks, so ask.

What should I ask before buying a lab-grown diamond over five carats?+

Whether it will hold its value, whether it was treated, its type, its proportions and imaging, its price per carat against other sizes, the seller’s markup, its cut grade, the laboratory and report number, whether you can inspect it before paying, the return and not-as-described policies, and who cut it.

Further guides

Certification and Verification

What each field on the report means, and how to check it yourself.

Read the guide

What a Large Stone Actually Costs

Dated prices, where the premium sits, and what retail markup adds.

Read the guide

Why Cut Is the Hard Part

Why the record stones are all emerald cuts, and how to judge cut at size.

Read the guide

 

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